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kyle- 6'1'' made of shit. lauren- 5'10'' hot as shit. lovin, kissin, touchin, dealin, wheelin, flyin, not lyin. one of us takes good care of electronics. and its not the female counterpart.

Wednesday, December 29, 2010

Peace Talks with the Taliban?

Something I am very interested in is the Middle East. It seems to be one of the most misunderstood places in the whole world. I follow the news as much as I can and try to read as many books as I can so that I can fully understand the culture and lifestyles of the people we call our enemies. I find Islam and middle eastern culture so interesting. I was almost a Muslim for a half a minute. Two of my fave books are Three Cups of Tea and Stones Into Schools by Greg Mortenson. He builds schools in Afghan and Pakistan and I am bordlerline in love with him. What a humanitarian. This is just a little response I have to Stones Into Schools.
After reading a lot about Afghanistan in the news and reading the background on the NYTimes website, I must say it is looking a little bleak for this country. Maybe not though, maybe there will be peace someday. There are definitely some serious issues facing decision makers today. One huge issue is the Taliban. They have taken control of the country. They are a corrupt group that has banned movies and music and made it illegal for women to go to school and forced them to be fully covered. They have kept control and made most of their money because of the opium trade in the country. Hamid Karzai has talked about maybe reaching out to the Taliban and Obama has also said he may consider this.
Another issue is that of the weak and corrupt government of Afghanistan. Hamid Karzai came into power a few years ago and he has a lot on his plate. He wants peace and he wants his country to come out of their economic slump, but this is a tough job because he does not have much support from his own people. The United States is faced with trying to make Afghan’s government strong and keeping Karzai as an ally. In Obama’s plan he said to him, ‘the days of providing a blank check are over.’ Obama plans to crack down and keep Karzai in check but at the same time did not lay out a plan of action is Karzai did not follow through with his plan to change the ways of his governments.
Last but certainly not the least is the need for allies and partners in Afghanistan. At one time, Pakistan was providing the Taliban with resources and weapons. And their neighbor on the other side is Iran, which we all know is no help to the US or the rest of the world. France and Germany have backed off a little with their help to us, as well as a lot of our other allies being unsure when we invaded Afghan. If we had more support from the rest of the world, we would be able to have a stronger force against the Taliban and be able to help aid the people and be able to build up the government better.

The United States is doing a lot for Afghanistan and will most likely continue to do so for years to come. I learned a lot from Mortenson's book about what the US can do. He has a great approach to helping and relating to the citizens of Afghanistan.
One thing that the United States could do is work on education. If they citizens who are educated could maybe stop being taught anti west views, we could maybe start to clear up some issues. Educating them can only help them. We saw all the positive it did for the thousands of people, only women who attended the schools funded by the CAI. A quote in Stones into Schools really stuck with me. “The thirst for education over there is limitless. The Afghans want their children to go to school because literacy represents what neither we nor anyone else has so far managed to offer them: hope, progress, and the possibility of controlling their own destiny.” It is clear that there is not only a need for education but a want. Providing education would be a proactive way for the US to create relations with Afghanistan.
Next, the troops could work even more so on the ground level with the citizens and try to make friends with them. Greg Mortenson made close friends because he did not invade the town and attack. He made nice with the elders and got permission to be there. That is the trick! He was successful in the towns and villages then. And the relationships he built were strong and lasting. He would not have been able to complete his projects without the hard work of the locals.
Another thing I learned from Mortenson was to listen. We have to listen to the people. Greg listened to them so they he could better meet their needs. He listened to his daughter who suggested building a play ground. The US military and the government need to listen to the people.  The citizens of the US need to listen to the people also. The Afghans are not all members of the Taliban and they do not all hate the US. They want things we want-education, freedom, choices. Everyone in the whole United States should read this book. Their eyes will be immediately opened and so will their hearts.

Saturday, December 25, 2010

Kyle and I have been friends for 10+ years and dating (on and off) for three, but this was our first Christmas 'on'. We had a great time. We know we are very lucky to have each other. This is a short run down of our Christmas.
Groovy's first Christmas!! She opened all her presents by herself!

Kyle and I at churchy church.

So typical-me cheesin, Kyle spacing out and Groovy attacking!

Christmas presents wth Hannah and Faron!

This is how I smile like Kyle.

christmas

Kyke and Ihad a grest first Christmas together. He got lots of good books and music. his fave gift was his new banjo! I got a lot of little trinkets from greatergood.com. My fave gift from Ky is definitely the cuddle monkey. I will be taking it to Ethiopia. I am currently using Kyle's ipad to write this entry. He said he would never let me use it! I will be sure to smudge it up and maybe wipe a booger or two on it.
As of right now we have no plans for new years eve but Im sure we will think of something. Kyle just wants to do something that involves alcohol. I would rather stay in and eat some yummy food and maybe scrapbook a page or two but I can almost guarantee what we end up doing will involve drinking. And that is fine.
Merry Christmas everyone!

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

3029482 Reasons Why I Am Superly, Annoyingly, Stupidly, Over the Top In Love With Kyle.

Because-
he is never boring.
he never makeS fun of me for being a veg.
he lets me give him a detailed description of how I spent my day.
he's dependable and trustworthy.
he is super fun.
he speaks his mind to me.
we get along so well.
we're so much alike!! haha not
he turns me on without doing anything.he calms me down when I get bitchy, high maintenance, pissy, etc.
he is never boring.
we talk about everything and nothing.
the way he inspires me with his openmndedness, conspiracy theories, beliefs, etc.
he makes me the happiest.
he teaches me everyday to accept, to be open minded, to be patient.
the way he gets my attention
he's the only one who thinks im NOT weird.
I can never hate him.
I tell long, ridic, exaggerated stories that have no meaning, but he listens anyway.
how he loves.
his mad face.
his I love you face. 
how it seems like we're the only ones here.
he accepts my mood swings.
he is an absolute delight.
he is a hot piece.
he always tells me I'm the prettiest girl in the world.
he makes me feel like the best is yet to come!
he pretends he's going to do what I suggest.
he's a sex pot.
he's so cuddley.
he's supafly.
he's goofy.
he is fo sho too hot to handle.
he listens.
he is pure.
he is kind to animals.
his face.
he knows every freckle, birthmark, etc.
he knows where to touch me.
that smile when we're done kissing.
we are perfect together.
he listens to my rants about animal rghts, the middle east, the environment, the government, etc.
Forever.


Lover forever

thinking and drinking

making cupcakes in the kitchen, following a 900 year old secret family recipe, which no one can know or even find out (unless you pay kyle, he would be willing to sell it if the price is right).  these cupcakes, of course, are the sequel to magnificent money making margaritas which, coincidentally, are also a 900 year old secret family recipe that kyle may or may not be willing to sell.  Lauren is semi angry during this whole process, as she is barely drinking her margarita which kyle believes to be the cause of her anger.  people who give early xmas presents are gay.  people who don't use turn signals are gay.  and, most of all women drivers shouldn't be able to drive.
which brings me to the point of the blog.  and what exactly is the point of a blog? of any blog?  like a public diary? do people really think about each specific thing they post online in a blog? for potentially millions of strangers to see? do i want strangers reading about my personal life and any intimacies that i may or may not share?  do i like strangers looking at my facebook and then thinking they know me because the pictures i have posted look enough like me that they can recognize me walking down the street? absolutely not. its weird.

o yeah, me and lauren have a 6 year plan. which does not involve kids.  lauren thinks all of our friends are either engaged or married.  technically, this is incorrect.  not most of my friends are married, and it's quite possible most of her friends are married, but they're obviously crazy, since only crazy people get married. 

however, it can also be said that only crazy people are able to love.  and i do love lauren. and i did not just insert that into this blog posting because shes sitting beside me yelling/questioning me why our 6 year plan does not include marriage. we just don't particularly need to think about that now. both of us have lots of shit to learn and lots of room to grow.  we're still having fun, still loving, still doing different things together.  we need not be in such a hurry to grow up, rather just have fun and enjoy what is happening now.  and 69.

now lauren will type. starting now.